You're probably thinking, what the hell is a "going with the flow" type?
Well my friend, I made up the term on a coaching call with one of my clients in my entrepreneurial mentorship program..true story.
We were talking about something, where she completely gave up control of a situation in her life.
She didn't do anything.
She didn't react or respond.
She didn't try and change her thoughts around it.
She didn't ask herself what she wanted instead.
What she did was apply the statement "I'm going with the flow" to her everyday life.
That going with the flow mentality cost her thousands of lost dollars in her business.
She didn't consciously do something to lose that much money but it was what she didn’t do that allowed someone else to control the outcome of what happened to her.
That's when I broke down the two types for her and the term was created..Viola!
(Can you tell I've been playing lots of magic games with my kids lately?)
So, what’s the...
This past week I embraced the beginning of a new chapter in my life. I signed my divorce papers ending an 8 year marriage. It was a bittersweet moment that left me feeling a wide range of emotions. As I looked back on my 8 year marriage I began to question everything I did. Although I did that in the past and made peace with my decisions, I found that in the aftermath of signing the paperwork, the same emotions crept back in.
After sifting through my memory of countless arguments and fights, I wondered what I could have done differently to handle the situation. How could I have avoided fights that led to the moments leading up to my divorce?
As I kept thinking about the bad moments I kept feeling negative emotions. Then I stopped myself.
I looked at where I was right now in my life and the vision I made for my new life and a strong sense of comfort and peace came over me. I was right where I needed to be.
The last 6 months of my life has been an intense...